WHO TRULY STUCK THE KNIFE IN FIRST? (2024)

Sculptural installation;
pillow knife,
discoball droplets


‘Who truly stuck the knife in first?’ explores blame and pain. It delves into the pain that develops during a relationship and the coping mechanisms surrounding it. Is there ever one to blame? Since most pain we carry around is intergenerational. In the end, drawing the conclusion that there is no singularity in blame; all parties are culpable. Love is a two-way street; it takes two (or more ;)) to tango.

Who did what? Which behaviors and childhood pains were triggerd? Such dynamics often involve a play between victim and perpetrator. Perhaps to heal we could speak on responsibility rather than blame.




You shrug and it's the worst
Who truly stuck the knife in first? 

Amy Winehouse - You know I’m no good